I did my first Self-Defense Class and you should too

Hi everyone! By the time a woman has reached her 20’s, she will have fallen victim to violence or assault. Statistically according to a report by the TEARS organisation, about 45.6% of women in South Africa have experienced physical and sexual violence, compared to the 35% worldwide. Sadly, this has become the societal norm and…

The Invisible Workload Killing Working Moms

Asalaams Everyone! I know that I have blogged a super long time ago, but I am no longer making excuses, I love this blog and everything that it stands for but yo, a girl has to work, and balance her home and try to keep her ish in order so I could not make the…

Issues of Faith

Asalaam Everyone, I intended to write a totally different post today, but in light of what happened at Christchurch in New Zealand, I feel that this would be more appropriate. Growing up, I always had questions with regards to my faith, I never had many muslim friends and those friends I had, well they weren’t…

What Type of Mom am I?

Hey everyone! It has been the longest time but I just needed a break from blogging for a while, after my last post I decided to really evaluate whether I wanted to be a blogger. Adding to that just cementing my acceptance that not being a major blogger is okay for me, my priority lies…

I Quit Blogging.

Asalaams everyone! A blessed Jumuah Mubarak to you all, with only about a week left of Ramadaan, I just had to squeeze one more post in.For a while now I have felt like I should quit blogging, you either thinking, “well gee its about time!” or you’re thinking, “but why??”. Here’s the deal, blogging has…

Beyond Penis Priviledge

Good morning everybody, With the weather being so chilly and me freezing my butt off at work, it really makes one reflect as to how much I take coffee for granted,lol. However I digress,  a while back I came across an article that spoke about “penis priviledge”, in a nutshell, men will always be assholes…

Do I even deserve Mother’s Day?

Hey everyone, There’s a really big day coming up, well not really that big, since according to Superman, the kids will make me something so that should be enough *he’s a buzzkill I know* which day am I talking about? Mother’s Day of course! Every year though it seems like the few days leading up…

Should 2 become 3??

Hi everyone, Hope that you all are amazing and enjoying the fact that it is Friday and we are sliding into the weekend like heeeeeey!!! Lately I have been feeling a bit broody, seeing so many babies and seeing how well the boys have been getting along, has really made me feel like maybe we…

I ran a 10km race WILLINGLY

Hi everyone! If you follow me on Instagram then you will know that last week Sunday I ran my first 10km race! Yep, you read that completely correctly, I willingly signed myself up to do this, I was not coerced in any form or manner. Just prior to having Cupcake, I was working in a…

Potty Training is Fun

Asalaams everyone! Its the weekend and I am so super stoked that we actually have plans that don’t revolve around cleaning or laundry. *happy dance* I promised to blog about my potty training journey with Cupcake, so here goes. Towards the end of last year, just as Cupcake was turning 3, his class teacher was…